We live in a world that bombards us with so much nonsense about what is “attractive”, “normal”, and dull ideas about sexuality. Just imagine letting go of all that and entering a consensual, safe and respectful space in which you could explore your authentic desires and embark on a journey of self-discovery, sensuality and sexuality in deeper and transformative ways.

Throw away external influences, follow your own path and step into my Sparkly world of milking table erotic massage.

Touch is magical. In the right hands, things melt away, and you can find new levels of ease and pleasure. I started in the industry over 10 years ago, and my sass, confidence and sense of humour served me well. They still do. I quickly learned though of another gift I have- my hands. I started off in Sydney’s massage parlours, none of them deserve to be named, none of them are close to worthy of the beautiful humans they profit obscenely from. When I started, my effervescent personality and conversation skills definitely served me well in introductions and bookings. The more I massaged people though, the more I discovered how much I love massaging people and what I could really do with my hands. The relaxation, soothing, tease, eroticism and pleasure my hands can give became electrifying and addictive for me. I made the bold decision to venture out and be my own boss, and haven’t looked back. I moved to Melbourne 8 years ago, and have thrived providing Erotic Massage in Melbourne just south of the CBD. This love of touch, flair for the creative and kinky, and using my hands eventually led me to pursue the joys of BDSM in my career, which I will delve into in other blog posts.

In a world that often demands our constant attention and leaves us little room for self-care, the benefits of indulging in sensual experiences are increasingly recognised. Among these, erotic massage stands out as a unique and intimate way to explore one’s sensuality while promoting overall well-being. So here are seven compelling reasons to consider the transformative power of an erotic massage.

Stress relief and relaxation

In our fast-paced lives, stress has become an unwelcome companion. There are copious amounts of evidence, scientific and medical data to show the impacts stress can have on our well-being as a whole- physical, emotional and mental health. Erotic massage, when performed by a skilled professional, focusses on releasing tension from the body. The gentle touch and rhythmic movements can stimulate the production of endorphins, reducing stress levels and inducing a profound sense of relaxation.

Improved emotional well-being

The connection between touch and emotional well-being is well-established. Erotic massage allows individuals to explore and embrace their sensual side, fostering a positive relationship with their bodies. This intimate experience can lead to improved self-esteem, body confidence and a heightened sense of emotional well-being.

Enhanced intimacy and connection

Erotic massage is an excellent way for couples to deepen their connection and intimacy. It provides a platform for partners to explore each other’s bodies in a safe and consensual environment, creating a stronger emotional bond. Through shared vulnerability, couples can rekindle the spark and redsicover the joy of touch. I absolutely love couples erotic massages.

Sensual exploration and self-discovery

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery is a crucial aspect of personal growth. Erotic massage offers a unique opportunity for individuals to explore their bodies, desires, and boundaries. This heightened self-awareness can contribute to a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

Improved circulation and physical health

Beyond its emotional and psychological benefits, erotic massage can positively impact physical health. The various massage techniques employed during the session can stimulate blood circulation, alleviate muscle tension, and contribute to a healthier cardiovascular system. A relaxed body often results in better overall physical well-being.

Heightened sensation and pleasure

Erotic massage is designed to engage the senses and enhance pleasure. The skilled touch or erotic massage therapist can awaken dormant sensations, leading to a heightened sense of arousal and pleasure. This experience allows individuals to explore the full spectrum of their sensuality in a controlled and respectful setting.

Stress-free exploration in a safe environment

It’s essential to emphasise that erotic massage is a consensual and professional service provided in a safe environment. Skilled practitioners prioritise the comfort and boundaries of their clients, ensuring a stress-free and enjoyable experience. This commitment to professionalism allows individuals to explore their sensuality without fear or discomfort.

Embracing the transformative power of erotic massage goes beyond seeking momentary pleasure. It is about prioritising self-care, fostering intimate connections, and embracing one’s sensuality in a safe and respectful environment. As we navigate the complexities of modern life, incorporating the art of erotic massage into our self-care routines can lead to a more balanced, fulfilling and harmonious existence.

The effects of stress on our health are well documented. Knowing how bad stress is for our health is one thing, what we do to manage or minimise stress is another. I am guilty of it myself, I can be an absolute masochist in my personal life, am often better at taking care of others than taking care of myself and notoriously bad at slowing down or taking much needed breaks. I am definitely getting better at it, but strange as it sounds to say, it takes work. What does that work look like? Simple things like setting boundaries, when I am available, when I am not, what my contact hours are and time that I switch off and take personal time. Doing things that I enjoy and find fulfilling in my personal time- long walks in nature with my dog, getting massages, getting manicures and pedicures, even something as simple as enjoying a quiet cup of coffee at my favourite local café. It can be bigger things like spending time with family, going to concerts, BDSM events and workshops, festivals or AFL games. Whatever it is that brings you joy and refills your cup, whatever that may be.

So where do massage and orgasms come into this? The beauty of this is how simple and primal it is. We carry stress and tension in our bodies, from our muscles, to our brains, to our stomachs. It can affect us in so many ways, everyone is different. Massage is a fantastic way to release stress and tension from wherever we are carrying it. A time to literally lie down, breathe and have someone gently knead away all those knots. Float away as someone transports you away from all that stress in a serene and cosy space. The science of it is simple and irrefutable, massage helps produce and release dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin. These three hormones boost positive feelings and relieve stress. Sometimes the simple and scientific way is the best way. Science aside, I will speak from personal experience, of both giving and receiving massages. The magical feeling of my oiled up hands and skin pressed against someone and feeling them melt into my milking table. Breath slowing, mind emptying, completely forgetting the worries of the outside world for the time they are in my presence. It never gets old, I always love it. Having people lie down on my table and surrender all control to me and let me work my magic on them. I love to carve out time for myself and get massages too. I have a few favourite places, and love nothing more than booking ahead, arriving, undressing, lying down covered in a towel and floating away as the massage therapist kneads all my sore, tight muscles. Closing my eyes, focussing on my breath and letting go.

The beauty of erotic massage on my milking table? You get to lie down and receive! So often people- especially men- think they have to be proactive and check off a sexual list. Lying down, letting go and allowing someone else to take control can be challenging. Embrace it! Enjoy it. It may even open up a more adventurous side to you, a side where you get to discover the joys of relinquishing control and discover other aspects of power

play you enjoy. Perhaps the introduction of a blind fold one day, some restraints or ropes another day. It can be a magical journey of self discovery, and who better than someone as experienced, skilled and talented as a professional to guide you on that journey?

The beauty of erotic massage is *all* parts of you get attention- bringing us to the spectacular climax, your orgasm. Another part of the massage that can be played with in so many ways, if you want to play with those ways. From edging, teasing, things that can heighten your orgasm and so much more. Ultimately orgasms release two of hormones released by massage, dopamine and oxytocin, so you get an extra dose of those wonderful happy hormones when you have an erotic massage.

So now, all you need to do is reserve some Sparkly Space and experience the wonders yourself.

I often get asked how I got into BDSM, so I am now sharing that story with all of you, my delightful deviants and curious onlookers. If you have dared to enter my world, we both already know your mind is open enough to the endless possibilities in the realm of sexuality and self-exploration. Down the Sparkly rabbit hole we go!

I grew up in a very Christian household. One of two siblings, I am the only daughter to my incredible Coptic Orthodox parents. I was both a very devoted and devout daughter up till the age of 15, when my overactive and inquisitive mind started to question the contradictions in Christianity. It was a very fast path from questioning to dissatisfaction, disillusionment and walking away from the church. If anything I have always been principled bold and stubborn- so I had to walk away. I am also adventurous and spontaneous by nature, so soon after finishing school at 17 years old, the adventures began.

Segue to my first international trip sans family, and I head to Canada with my high school best friend, not only do I visit my first adult store, but I also lose my virginity to a Canadian snowboarder at 19. From losing my virginity at 19, I was very sexually adventurous. So by 22, you guessed it, I was wrist deep and drenched. It was a balmy night and I was a scantily clad 22-year-old splitting my time between two parties. The first party being a gender fuck party at Sydney University (oh, did I neglect to mention I was queer), to a BDSM event at a club less than a few mins away from the gender fuck party. Flirting with and making out with a crush at one party, to flitting up the road to flirt with an older couple at the BDSM event. I was giddy with excitement and mischief and adventure was the theme of the night for me. As the evening ran its course, I made plans to see the cutie at the Sydney Uni party later in the week and ended up heading home with the couple.

Once we arrived at their place, boundaries were established and play ensued. I discovered the joys of topping and using my hands young and fast- and it was a lot of fun topping someone a bit older and more experienced than I, and enjoying a lot of firsts all in one evening. The first threesome, check. First time in bed with multiple people with vaginas, check. Now onto the other firsts for the evening. My excitement as my gloved and lubricated hand teased its way into a very aroused older woman. As play escalated, I found finger after finger sliding into an incredibly wet and warm cunt. It was magical. I feel a warmth course through my body as I reminisce and write- this was an incredible moment in a lifelong journey of sexual awakening. Before I knew it, I was fist deep in her cunt and it was new, exciting, and I wanted more. I could feel the arousal and pressure on my hand. The fucking built in intensity, and the power was euphoric. The next thing I know, my stomach was drenched in cum. I said it was a night of many firsts- and my first encounter with squirting- female ejaculation was one of those firsts.

I wanted more and still want more. This night was the beginning of something much bigger and more powerful for me. BDSM and kink are part of my journey and sexuality, and always will be. I am eternally grateful I approached and continue to approach life and sexuality with an open mind, imagination and no abandon. It has and continues to teach me a lot about who I am, and who I am not. It allows me to share this with others and open them up to both me and themselves, and I am happy and always grateful.